When your boss says, "We're not here to assign blame," duck. When we say you're not entirely to blame for your paunch, you're not off the hook. Nobody is the innocent victim of a drive-thru feeding. But there are sneaky factors--your friends, your family, your mindset--that can sabotage the best weight-loss plan. Your strategy: Identify the saboteurs, then adjust.
We do not suggest blaming her for your belly. This would be (a) wrong and...